Tuesday, January 3, 2012

群说



那天
群说 想办法沟通
不要硬硬把事情分成对或错
重要的是 告诉对方自己的感受和双方寻找解决方法
告诉他  “你这样做,让我觉得很不舒服”
前提是 在好的气氛下 进行
这样 双方才能打开心房说出来
也不要先入为主对方这么想那样想 


我只能说 这是徒劳无功
有 我尝试 说出我的感受
最后 能换来什么?
换来 夺门而去
留下错愕的我
说了 也不能做什么


也到最后 学会了沉默
学会了生气还要静静
然后尽量摆出开心的脸
无论心里面是多么的难过


是不是说 到最后
我也要为自己找到一幅面具?
面具底下的我 是泪流满面


不知道如何解决
毕竟还是会重蹈覆辙
总结 他自己觉得 为了顾及对方的感受 而有所保留 不说 
隐瞒就是最好解决的方法
这样能减少争吵
殊不知 是 引发 最多的 争吵
因为我最讨厌隐瞒
如果关系匪浅的话
我喜欢坦诚相对


那我 大不了 继续 无缘无故 不出声
自己私地下 自问自答 
找不到答案 就难过...........
不必说出 为何难过



因为对方根本不在乎 
在乎的 只有自己快乐


哈哈!



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